Relationships can be a mine field of assumptions, personalizations, assumptions and miscommunications.

Empowerment comes from understanding yourself really well; how you act, react and interact with others will determine your experience with them and with life. 

Choosing a path of self-discovery will build self-esteem and self-worth.  Happiness is generated from the inside and radiates outwardly. 

Healthy relationships are created from two healthy individuals. 

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The benefits of being single is that you can make choices and decisions without negotiating with anyone else.  Should you want to find a life partner, however, there are many challenges the least of which is meeting other people.  Online dating provides opportunities of introduction and can also be very difficult affecting our self-esteem if we let it.  Opinions and decisions are made based on your personal bio or a short conversation over coffee.  There can be so many factors included in deciding not to go out on another date such as lack of chemistry, lifestyle incapabilities, attitudes and dragging along past baggage to name a few. 

If you are not confident in who you are and understand yourself really well, this can be very debilitating.  Repeated "no's" can be hard on self esteem.  Personalizing these no's are rooted in the "not good enough" syndrome and unknowingly we broadcast this self-belief outwardly.  It also presents a victim energy of needing someone else to make us happy which is an impossibility.  Starting a new relationship in this energy is very unhealthy.

I believe that empowerment comes from understanding yourself really well.  The best gift you can give yourself is self-growth and self-awareness.  Understanding yourself will allow you to heal past relationships and let go of old issues.  The more you can let go of the past, the more healthy energy you will have available going into a new relationship.

In my opinion, there is no better modality to assist you in understanding yourself and others is The Enneagram Personality System.  No other personality system has a step by step process to assist you with your growth.  For more information on The Enneagram

For myself, when I am triggered by something, I now know what that was, why I was triggered, what I expected from the interaction, why the other person may have no idea of what my expectation was and how I can communicate more effectively with this person based on their personality perspective and mine.  It has made life much easier for me and my interactions with others smoother.  More importantly there is a lot less drama in my life. 

Courses are:    Intro to the Enneagram-Singles,  Shaping Your Destiny-Singles  &  Conversation Negotiation.  To Register

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